Thank you for stopping by and reading this latest Limitless Believing article, one which I thought long & hard about before deciding to write it.
I know that I haven’t published anything in a while, and for this I apologise. I haven’t received any complaints about my irregular posting schedule, but if there’s anyone out there who was eagerly anticipating my next article, then I hope this will do as a way of compensating.
The Story
You see, over the past few months, I haven’t been posting as often as I used to. When I first created Limitless Believing, I was excited – I thought that a chance to start over from Unlock The Door and re initiate my blogging desires was just what I needed. And to begin with, I was right.
After creating a writing & marketing strategy, and finalising all of the design elements, I felt like I was ready to go. I knew that I was capable of writing strong pieces of writing, and coming up with relevant and interesting topics, so I was sure of my ability to produce the goods and develop Limitless Believing into one of the top personal development websites out there.
Unfortunately, it since hasn’t worked out that way. Up until around the start of September, I was still passionate about this website and its content. I was writing twice a week and keeping a good flow. But two things happened in September that have since lowered my time & desire to write meaningful and detailed articles:
- I started a new full time job. This has reduced my spare time, particularly in the mornings. I prefer to write in the mornings and edit in the afternoon/evening, but since my morning time has decreased, my writing time has suffered as a result. And as my job provides a decent salary, I have to prioritise it over my ‘non-paying’ writing. Don’t get me wrong – I’d rather I was paid for the writing, but I don’t have that luxury right now.
- I have decided to move into the field of Psychology. This means that in January, I’ll be starting a new distance-learning Psychology course for a year. It’s like a taster course, where if I pass, I’ll be able to do a full conversion course to convert my Drama degree into a Psychology course. This will then open up a field of possibilities for me, because a Psychology graduate has potential to work in a variety of areas.
You may ask why I’m pursuing a Psychology career. To tell you the truth, I have always loved helping people – it’s why I started Unlock The Door back in 2010. I’m a caring guy by nature, and to help others when they’re down and lift them back up again gives me immense satisfaction, as well as a feeling that my life is worthwhile.
I suppose we all feel like we want to help others in some way, yet we all choose to express it differently. Some prefer physically nursing the afflicted, others choose to teach the next generations, and others still prefer to dive into emergency situations and save lives. I believe that it’s my ‘calling’ to help others mentally and emotionally, through good and bad times.
And I have identified psychology (literally ‘study of the mind’) as one of the best ways to achieve my calling.
The human mind has always fascinated me – how we think & feel, what causes us to act, why we like & dislike certain things, & so on. I would love to move into this intriguing branch of work & learn more about the human condition. Indeed, I believe gaining qualifications and studying is the next step for my career, and I’m genuinely excited about the possibilities.
But what does this mean for Limitless Believing?
Limitless Believing 2013
To be honest, I don’t know. I would like Limitless Believing to go on until April, when it’ll be a year old, but it currently feels like it’s limping rather than marching towards that milestone.
If I find inspiration and/or time, then I will continue writing. Perhaps this Psychology taster course will help restart my creative writing juices, who knows? But I don’t intend on ending it yet – I think that Limitless Believing still has some life left inside it.
I may have closed down the newsletter, but I don’t want to close the website down too. Maybe there’s more to come from me, and that I’m currently going through a break from writing here. I wish I had more answers for you, but I currently don’t.
Thank you for sticking around to this point – it’s been a pleasure to write for you & and read some of your lovely & kind comments. I hope to see you again when I return.
Until next time, be safe, & have a Happy New Year!
Stuart





{ 12 comments… read them below or add one }
Hey Stuart,
Life can sure throw some curve balls. And I guess most of life is about tradeoffs. We have a finite amount of time and energy and other resources to do an infinite possibility of things. So we choose. We prioritize and decide how much of which things will be done to the exclusion of how much of which other things.
I believe you have so much to offer the world. So many lives to touch, people to help, lost souls seeking something to grasp onto, words of solace, of direction, of inspiration. And whether you do that here, in an office between client and therapist, coaching, or any number of other ways, that you will have a profound effect on many people.
Whatever happens here for you or in the future in some other capacity, I just want you to know that you’ve been an inspiration to me and an example of passion and love and service that has left an indelible mark on all I do as a blogger in my little corner of the blogosphere.
And I thank you for that, Stu.
May your New Year bring light and direction and insight and clarity, my friend.
God speed!
Ken Wert@MeanttobeHappy recently posted..The Happiness Pledge
Wow, thank you Ken, that’s a very thoughtful & kind comment. I appreciate it!
I’m glad to hear that I’ve inspired you my friend, it truly fills my heart with joy
As you said, I hope to keep helping, inspiring, and uplifting others, whether it be by blogging, by therapy, or by any other medium. To me, the core of what I do is far more important than how I do it.
Thank you again Ken, you really are one of the shining lights in the blogosphere, from your little corner!
Take care, and may 2013 provide everything you could ask for
Hi Stuart, I hope you find that psychology does help you help others. It depends a lot on the course you end up in. Wishing you much joy in helping others.
Evan recently posted..Life Comes Free and It’s Important to Giggle
Thank you Evan, that’s very kind of you to say!
Thank you for all your support too, I’m indebted to you
Happy New Year my friend!
Hi Stu,
Firstly, I just want to say ‘thank you’ to you for producing this website. It has been an inspiration to many people, including myself. I have even been able to do some of my own writing, which I never thought I’d be able to. It’s with the help of this blog and yourself that I was able to do that.
Also, good luck with the psychology course. I know you’ll be great and you never know, you may even get inspired to write an article on your progress. I’m sure many people would like to know how you’re getting on. I know you’ll be great at helping others as you already have with this website.
Thanks again, I for one am very proud! I look forward to seeing ‘LB” progress in 2013!
Happy New Year!
Sam xxxxx
Hi Sam!
Thank you, I really appreciate all the kind words that you have for me! Your writing was great, and I thought you did a great job
I may just write that article! I hope to keep helping others, as that’s something I can see myself doing all throughout my life.
Thank you again, for all your help & support over the months
Happy New Year to you too! xxxxx
Hey Stu,
Glad to see your post and yes, I am one of those who were wondering and awaiting posts from you
I have always enjoyed reading your blog.
Good luck for your new job . I am sure you will some how find time to pen down your thoughts and experiences on this blog. I am full time employee since almost 17 years now. And my posting frequency is random too. But that’s okay. It’s the change, that makes life interesting and enjoyable.
Enjoy in what you are doing and it’s okay if you couldn’t keep up with blog. Focus on your job and I am sure you will produce some gems on this blog whenever you get time.
Take care and Happy New Year.
Naveen Kulkarni recently posted..Planetnaveen Highlights of 2012
Hi Naveen, thanks for stopping by, and for being one of those good waiters
I’m glad you understand what I’m experiencing, it certainly hasn’t been fun at times when I wanted to write something here, but the time ran out. Still, I’m not giving in, and I WILL produce some new material. Just don’t know when!
Happy New Year to you too Naveen, I hope you brought in 2013 with a smile
Hi Stuart,
I perfectly understand what you mean by real life interfering with our blogging plans. And I totally agree with you that it is always better to adapt to the variety of circumstances and go with the wind instead of wasting time and resources on going against the wind.
Good luck with your new job and further self-development.
Only best wishes,
Julia
Julia Reed recently posted..Top Fifteen Types of Music for Studying: Choose Favorite Genres!
Hi Julia,
Thank you, and I appreciate the kind words! The flow is always the best place to be, though it doesn’t always seem like the ‘logical’ choice.
Take care
Stuart, it’s been too long my friend. I realize you haven’t posted a comment since January, so I’m not sure if you will get this. Man, do I know how you feel. Those full-time jobs and class schedules can really take the joy out of blogging and writing. And it’s not that you don’t want to write. But where do you find the time. It doesn’t surprise me that psychology is your field. You don’t write a personal development blog at all if you don’t have an interest in how people think.
I got out of the habit of blogging for all the reasons you described and more. And with a family and small kids, it really makes it difficult. But I DID find I missed it. And it does give an outlet to help people. And for that reason I hope you’ll stick it out.
And as I say this, I have found myself starting up a new blog all over again. I’m trying to give myself permission to go slowly and not overwhelm myself. But I’d love to network again!
Bryan Thompson recently posted..What Wonders of the World are You Missing?
Hi Bryan,
Comment received my friend, thanks for stopping by! You’re right – it’s been a little quiet round here recently!
I’m thinking of sticking it out for the same reason you mentioned – it’s an outlet to help people. You know that I love helping others and seeing them overcome their difficulties.
That’s great about your new ‘virtual home’, I’ll stop by soon and check it out! Be great to see you up and running again too!
Take care my friend, thanks again